
Yes. I turned 30 today! The big number 3-0 maybe a scary number for some women, but for me, I can tell you that I didn’t bat an eyelid about turning 30. In fact, I am quite excited about it!
I truely agreed that as a woman, you are the most beautiful in your early 30s, that you are at some sort of peace with where you are in life and it shows in many ways. You are grown from that 20 year old to be a little wiser, and you have more wisdom which is evident in the way you carry yourself and appear to others. It’s also about meeting expectations, whether yours or others. Whether you should be settle down, have a great career, a family, a morgage or some savings in your bank. It’s a reflection of age. It makes you look back and think about what you have accomplished in life.
My view on life were the same and still are. I cherish the moment and the important things such as my family and my friends. I enjoy the simple pleasures of eating and drinking, traveling around and glued in front of my laptop. I appeared on tv live, I went to performed in many places, I won awards in competitions, I work as an expat overseas, stay in several countries and had some amazing experiences, launched some online businesses and happily married. I learned about human nature by seeing it up close, raw and undiluted. I learned about preservance. I learned about feelings. I learned about overcoming obstacles and have a whole future ahead of me. I learned about truely appreciate good things in life. I learned that dreams can come true, if you believe it. I think if I could see myself now at 18, I would be pretty proud of how far I have come.
On the other hand, I know that there’s still so much in life to try, learn and experience! So much to do! So much to see! Before you know it … decades pass by!!
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I often go shopping for groceries at the nearby local Tesco and Carrefour outlets and I hate playing bumper car game with the locals. Occasionally when I intend to buy more or bigger stuff, I would like to use the shopping cart. Otherwise, I usually use the shopping basket provided. While you can easily find shopping baskets at the entrances, the same thing cannot be said about the carts. Don’t get me wrong. It is not that the shopping outlets do not have carts. In fact, there are LOTS of carts. If you are fortunate enough to find one, it is a nightmare navigating it through the masses of carts inside. While at the cashier, many of the carts have only a few items in it. Why do you need such a big cart while you only have 3 items to buy? Some of the Chinese mainland put their shopping baskets into their carts!?!? Grocery in the basket, basket in the carts. So clever! No wonder I can’t find any carts when I need them.
Back to navigating your carts in the supermarket; it is worse than driving around in Shanghai. It is really a result of some bad habits and “Who cares” attitude that the locals have. I absolutely hate it when some of them leave their carts in the middle of the pathway. One minute, they are pushing and pulling their carts. The next minute, they spot something interesting, leave their carts behind, and simply walk off to take a look. They can left their carts at the head of the pathway while they are looking at stuff at the end of the pathway. Amazing…
The other annoying thing is that they like to pull their carts along, instead of steer their carts. When you pull your cart along with one hand, it tends to move away from you. Not only does it block the whole pathway, the cart also hit other people, which can be very painful. The cart handles are designed so that you PUSH, not PULL!! When you push, you have a clear sight of where your trolley is moving. When the Chinese mainland pull their carts, it is like the blind leading the blind.
Very often, some will push their carts and unknowingly, hit someone or something in front of them. It seems like they do not realize they are pushing something physical in front of them.
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Another weirdo in Shanghai again! A guy wrapped himself like a mummy was spotted in the metro last week.



China Smack
Early this year, someone spotted Mr. Superman in Shanghai subway, and apparently there’s also Mr. Giraffe in subway and Man in Pink.
A video game metro?

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In China, everyone knows most couples have only one kid. This is the result of the Chinese government’s successful one-child policy, creating what many call “little emperors”. The child becomes the central focus of his parents and grandparents. They are given lots of love and attention to the point where sometimes, they become spoilt. I’m having my lunch with a few local friends today, I gain a deeper insight on how Chinese parents spoil their kids.
Interestingly, several of them point out that they will do everything in their power to let their daughters live a life beyond their means. Simply put, their daughters are the “princess” of the households. They get all the best and do not really need to help out with the chores. Even after their daugthers have started working, their parents continue to give them money every month to finance their buying sprees. One young colleague of mine was given a few hundred thousand yuan to buy an apartment in order to stay nearer to her working place. The other was given 10k cash to buy a LV handbag. Her salary is only 2k a month. Another was given a car so that she does not need to take the metro to work, although metro in Shanghai is super convenient. It’s also common to have your subordinates wear and drive better than you. I don’t know you, but at least it happens to me, my hubby and some of my expat friends.
The rational behind this is that, parents hope their daughters will grow up spoilt and look for a rich spouse that can continue to provide her with this lifestyle they have grown accustomed to. In this way, they hope their daughters will not suffer, at least in the material aspect.
“Give your daughter more money to spend on branded cloths, handbags, accesories etc… she will look more “high-class”! This way, they can get a rich spouse.”
I simply shook my head with a speachless smile. Chinese mainland like to emphasize the word “high-class”.
They are too spoilt, but some insist that they are not spoilt at all. What do you think?
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Deadly news… worth to read…
ASPARTAME – THE SILENT KILLER
For those who take Ricola & Fisherman, please note that they both contain Aspartame – the silent killer.
Fisherman Sweets
FOR THOSE WHO LIKE TO EAT FISHERMAN SWEETS BE CAREFUL: Sugar free products contain ASPARTAME .. So don’t consume Sugar free product esp. ‘fisherman sweets’ ASPARTAME – THE SILENT KILLER (by Ron Harder)To those who prefer to consume artificial flavoring:
There is an epidemic across North America today of Multiple Sclerosis and Lupus. Most people do not understand why this epidemic is happening, and they do not know why these diseases are so rampant. I would like to share with you the main reason we are having this very serious problem. Many people today use artificial sweeteners in their tea or coffee.
They do this because the ads they see on TV tell them that sugar is bad for their health. This is absolutely true. Sugar is toxic to us , but what most people use as a replacement for sugar is much more deadly. I am talking about ASPARTAME. It is the cause of the epidemic that was mentioned above. ASPARTAME is an extremely toxic chemical that is produced by a chemical company called Monsanto.
ASPARTAME is being marketed around the world as a sugar substitute and is found in all diet soft drinks, such as Diet Coke and Diet Pepsi . It is also found in artificial sweeteners such as NutraSweet, Equal, and Spoonful; and it is used in many other products as a sugar replacement.
ASPARTAME is marketed as a diet product, but it is not a diet product at all. In fact, it will cause you to GAIN weight because it makes you crave carbohydrates. Causing you to gain weight is only a very small part of what ASPARTAME does. It is a toxic chemical that changes the brain’s chemistry. It can and does cause severe seizures.
This chemical changes the dopamine level in the brain, and it is particularly deadly for anyone suffering from Parkinson’s disease.
ASPARTAME is extremely poisonous, and here is why one of the toxic ingredients of it is wood alcohol. When the temperature of
ASPARTAME exceeds 86 degrees F, the wood alcohol in it is converted to Formaldehyde, and then to formic acid, which in turn causes folic acidosis.
FORMALDEHYDE is grouped in the same class of poisons as Cyanide and Arsenic which are very deadly toxins. The only difference is, Formaldehyde kills quietly, and it takes a little longer. And, in the process of killing people, it causes all kinds of neurological problems. There are 92 documented symptoms of Aspartame Poisoning leading to coma and death.
The majority of these symptoms are neurological, because the ASPARTAME attacks and destroys the nervous system. One of these symptoms is Lupus, which has become almost as rampant as Multiple Sclerosis, especially with Diet Coke and Diet Pepsi drinkers.
ASPARTAME on Wiki.
More on ASPARTAME side effects.
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Just an update for Pudong International Airport shuttle bus schedule I wrote few months ago. The photo was taken from the airport terminal last week and I’m surprise to found there are 7 spelling mistake! Shanghai is organising World Expo soon and they ought to do something about the information board!
Please click the image to enlarge!
I noticed some visitors to my blog were looking for informations on how to travel from Shanghai Pudong airport to the surrounding cities. Hence I decided to post this information to help.
Pudong Airport Long Distance Bus Station:
Pudong airport serving direct buses to:
Zhejiang Province: Hangzhou, Jiaxing, Yiwu and Qingtian.
Jiangsu Province: Nanjing, Suzhou, Kunshan, Wuxi and Zhangjiagang.
You can buy tickets at the ticket counter at gate 6-9 of arrivals hall. Tel: 021-68345743.
If you are travelling to nearby cities that are not listed above, you will need to take the airport shuttle Line 5 to Shanghai Railway Station, or shuttle Line 7 to Shanghai South Railway station and buy a train ticket to your destination.
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The Chinese goverment spend a lot of effort to correctly translate the Chinese information on notice boards and road signs into English. This is to make sure that oversea tourist feel comfortable and are able to find their way around. It is anticipated that the number of tourists visiting China in 2008 will increase dramatically due to the Olympics being held in Bejing, the capital. While they may have done a decent job in Beijing and other olympic cities, it could be improve at Chengdu. Recently, on a trip to Chengdu, I visited the Panda Research Center again, a popular tourist attraction. The English information on the information boards and signs were, although not misleading, grammatically wrong. The Research Center is a must go place for tourist to Chengdu, why not change the signs as well!

“Caution, falling into water”

“To Pandas”

“Keeping Silence”

“Top One In The World”
And…. I promised my readers to post the Panda clip, here it is:
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I would like to apologise for not being regular lately, but I got a reason though! My family was visiting me in China. This is the first time my mom came to China and the contrast between foreigner and Chinese Mainland amazed my mom. Since young, we’ve head too much negative impressions regarding China (from friends and relatives who’ve been to China): Toilets with no doors, bad behaviour, bad hygine, when you buy souvenir and they will wrapped a broken one for you… etc. That’s probably the reasons we never choose China as our travelling destination in the past.
It was raining cats and dogs one afternoon, we were in a cab and was speeding to our destination. Approaching a cross junction, the cabbie slowed down slightly in anticipation of the changing traffic lights. The lights did turn green and the cabbie stepped on the gas. Unfortunately, as we were crossing the junction, a bicycle appeared out of nowhere. Given the wet, slippery road conditions and the cabbie’s speed, it was a miracle that the cabbie even managed to bring the vehicle to a complete stop! The cab only slightly bumped the bicycle and its rider, a middle age man. An argument broke out and soon enough, it become a shouting match and pointing here and there at each other. After a while, the bicycle rider got on his bike again an prepare to leave, still shouting and gesturing at our cab. He even kicked the cab just before he rode off. Our cabbie had no choice to continue driving and curse his own luck.
My mom could not comprehend some of the behaviour she saw while in China. Curious, she would always ask us “Why do people behave this way?” I guess it’s a default questions for newbies to China? In the begining, we tried to think of rational answers for her questions. Most of the time, we were lost for words and ended up laughing together. “Mom… This is China…” When speaking here to the locals, my mom will sometimes start in Mandarin and end up expressing the rest of her sentence in English. The locals, unable to comprehend what she was saying, would stare at her blankly. My mom, expecting some sort of reaction, stared back. A few seconds lapse before my mom realizes what is going on and she would repeat again in Mandarin. It is heartening though to see that there have been vast improvements in the infrastruture and behaviour of the Chinese mainland. Huge strides have been made in the past few years in preparation of the Beijing Olympics. There are still lots of room for improvement, especially the behaviour of the people in China!
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4 days after the opening of Marks & Spencer in Shanghai, I was shocked and saddened by the bizarre news that an Indian man fall to his death from 4th floor in the new store. Apparently, he had craned his neck to look down when the unfortunate accident happened. He died before police arrive at the scene. Read them here and here.
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I’m back from Chengdu on the 2nd where Marks & Spencer opened their doors in Shanghai during the October golden week holidays. I can imagine most of the British Expats in Shanghai would jump with joy dreaming of the cloths and food that they miss back home! So do Ron! It’s his favourite store and he does not need to travel to HongKong anymore to find suitable clothes as M&S usually offers them with European size. Bigger size are hard to find in China.
Compared to the M&S Asia stores in HongKong, Singapore or Philippines, the Shanghai store is much bigger, with 4 floors. Ladies’s fashion occupy the first 2 floors with lots of designer clothing under “Autograph” label. Men’s fashion can be found on the 3rd floor with shirts up to 18 inch neck, while food/household sections are on the 4th floor. I’m eager to see what they offer on their food sections and found that lots of biscuits and cookies are cheap because its closing to the expiry dates!
While it is fairly easy to find bigger size clothes in HongKong M&S stores, it seems that the Shanghai store caters more to local market demands at the moment. The selection of men’s casual clothes was also not as comprehensive in our opinion. The imported cookies on the 4th floor were quite popular as they were in discounted priced.
This is the first M&S store in China Mainland and it probably will not be the last. For us expats, its another place to get decent basic items for reasonable prices.


Another new store, ME & CITY opened at Nanjing East road. Weeks ago, I have been noticing some fairly huge poster in Shanghai subway stations of heart throb Prison Break actor Wentworth Miller.
The flagship store of ME & CITY is along the busy Nanjing East Road. Their silver colour carrier bags were certainly well-designed. Our carrier bags caught the attention of many curious people. In a way, we had become walking advertisting boards for ME & CITY.
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My name is Bibi Liew and I'm a third-generation oversea Chinese. I'm born on the 3rd of November and that makes me a typical Scorpio. I stayed in several countries and ended up in Shanghai for reasons that are still not entirely clear to myself... I came to China and work as an Expatriate in 2004. I am an Interior Architect and design Hotels and Club Houses in many Cities in China. Ron and I will relocate to Nanchang in March 2010 and I'll be a WAHM!